Ever tried dieting only to be hungry all the time and gain weight? Here’s how to bust through that problem!Do you often forget to eat because you’re too busy? Do you skip meals to control your weight (be honest)? Have you tried a 400, 800, or very low calorie or no carb diet only to not lose a pound or gain back more than you lost? Do you hardly eat anything but you’re still battling fat? It’s so frustrating!
If you’ve been starving yourself at the altar of a new diet and a pair of super skinny jeans only to not be able to get into them, this article is for you. You’ll gain a whole perspective on how to lose weight without ever feeling like you’re starving again.
And that’s actually the secret.
Your Brain on Low Fuel
Your brain works full time to keep you safe and smart. Even at rest your personal think tank is gobbling up 20% of all your calories. Add in active thinking, stress, and other real life factors, and you can bump that number right up.
Bottom line: Your brain needs to be fed.
When your brain isn’t getting the fuel it needs, which comes entirely from your food, it goes into a crisis of epic proportions. It sends out a red alert making you feel awful – shaky, irritable, unable to focus, you may even have cold sweats, with mad cravings for anything with sugar, fast burning carbs, or fat. Your brain is screaming, “Feed me now.”
When you’re on a super-calorie-restrictive diet, or skipping one meal too many, your primitive brain thinks, “Wait, maybe she’s not eating because there’s not enough food out three. Whoa, famine!” To protect you, your body gets the message, in the form of a hormonal messenger called cortisol (which is produced in your adrenal glands) to store every extra calorie. On goes the belly fat and up goes your cholesterol – your body’s way of storing energy.
The more you go through cycles of skipping and eating, losing and gaining, and the more you push your body to be skinnier than your body is meant to be, the more you will hold onto weight. It’s the famous Oprah phenomenon of gaining more weight after each diet and then having an increasingly hard time losing it.
Wait, There’s More
That’s not all that happens. Here’s some more of the tricky stuff your survival mechanism does to keep your brain fed:
- You start to crave sugar, carbs, and fat
- Your brain actually makes sugar, fat, and carbs taste especially good so you eat more! You’re like, “OMG, this is the best muffin I’ve ever tasted…and I’m starving (nom nom nom)” And you feel like “Ahhhh,” because your brain is actually sighing, a sigh of survival relief.
- Your brain hits the binge fest button so you really can’t eat just one. Rats who were put on low calorie diets and then exposed to Oreos chowed down every one in sight. Ever feel that way when you haven’t eaten enough? Then you’re like, “You know what, screw this diet anyway – forgot it.” And you eat the whole bag. And then get mad at yourself. No fun.
Cortisol overrides your willpower. No matter how much your thinking mind is saying, “Eat the salad,” your primitive brain is saying “I need energy and I need it now,” and you grab the muffin. Or chocolate bar. Or bag of chips.
And It Gets Even More Interesting
- Your ancient brain, being the wise ruler she is, decides it’s best to conserve energy by turning down your natural thermostat. What’s that? Your thyroid! Under-eating can cause you to develop hypothyroidism – and that for sure makes you pack on weight. And feel tired. And lose hair. And more…
- That belly fat you sock on isn’t just a flubby muffin top. It’s a full-on factory producing chemicals and hormones that confuse your hunger and fullness signals, making you eat more and still not feel full. It’s also pumping out loads of chemicals called cytokines that cause inflammation, depression, and chronic disease.
- As if that’s not enough, all that extra cortisol messes with your sleep. On average, lack of sleep makes you 5 pounds heavier. Fatigue also ups sugar cravings and leads to all kinds of metabolic, mood, immune system, and cognitive problems. Night shift nurses as a result, for example, have higher rates of obesity, diabetes, autoimmune disease, and cancer. This is big scary stuff!
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So You’re Saying I Can Eat More and I’ll Lose Weight?
Yes. If you’re skimping on energy intake, you have to eat more to lose weight, but you also have to eat the right foods, and at the right time. And you have to get your body out of survival mode.
That’s exactly what I teach your how to do in my new book, The Adrenal Thyroid Revolution, where I give you a whole plan, based on eating to keep your brain and body happy and out of survival mode. It’s a game changer because it tells you exactly what to take out of your diet and exactly what to include, and not only that, what to eat at what times of day, to help you reach your personal best weight and health.
But you don’t have to wait for your copy to arrive to get started.
Out of Survival Mode and Into Your Favorite Jeans
Below are my top 6 Secrets for keeping your brain out of survival mode to get your body – and weight – back on track:
1. Kick the Crap Out of Your Kitchen
Look, there’s no way around it. Sugar, processed foods, cookies, candy, soda – they’ve all got to go. They trick your brain into thinking it’s got fuel, only to disappoint with a quick energy burn that leaves you tired, depressed, and hungry, creating a vicious cycle of going in for more and continuing to come up empty. Eat only real food that gives you real energy. You’re too good for crap.
2. Never Get Too Hungry
Never let yourself get to the point where you’re so hungry that you’re shaky or cranky or jittery or you can’t focus or concentrate or you feel like you could just eat an entire box of anything right now that’s filled with carbs or sugar or fat. That’s low blood sugar, which is the primo signal to your brain to go into survival mode. To prevent this from happening:
- Eat breakfast within an hour of waking up and if you’re a coffee drinker, have your morning cup with or after your meal, but not before or instead of it.
- Eat a modest sized meal every 3-4 hours (see below for what to eat),
- Eat a good quality protein and fat at every meal. Not sure what these are? I walk you through them in my book.
- Have an afternoon snack of some nuts, a protein shake or smoothie, a green drink, a hard-boiled eggs, some hummus with vegetables
3. Cycle Carbs
Carbs (carbohydrates) have become the modern villain. And the bad kinds like processed flour really are bad for you. But super low carb diets over time have been shown to rebound on women, leading to imbalances in our cortisol, while having some healthy kinds, like whole grains and starchy vegetables (sweet potatoes, winter squash, even modest amounts of white potatoes baked or roasted as long as not slathered in sour cream!) can keep your cortisol in a healthy rhythm, especially when you cycle them at the right time of day, like my friend Alan Christianson teaches you how to do in his book The Adrenal Reset and I teach you in The Adrenal Thyroid Revolution. Here are the big points to follow:
- Generally, skip carbs at breakfast; or keep it to ½ a portion (1 piece of whole grain toast, for example) and don’t ever start your day with sweetened carbs (cereals, granola, muffins, pancakes with maple syrup, even if they’re paleo pancakes)
- At lunch have 1 portion of a whole grain or a starchy energy vegetable and at dinner have 1-2 portions. Examples include half a cup of cooked quinoa, red or pink or black rice, brown rice, and millet, a sweet potato, a portion of winter squash or baked or roasted white potatoes.
- Eating a healthy carbohydrate about 5 hours before bed has been shown to normalize cortisol, improve sleep, and help reduce excess weight. But don’t eat anything within 3 hours of bed, because that can do the opposite.
If you work night shifts do the same thing. When you wake up for night shift, that’s your breakfast time. Middle of the night, that’s your lunchtime. End of the night, that’s your evening time. You want to flip the script so that you’re still keeping as regular as you can. It’s much harder.
4. Get Enough Sleep
We need 7-8 hours of sleep each night to keep our cortisol in healthy balance, keep weight down, and curb the cravings. The top 3 things you can do to improve your sleep?
- Get to bed at the same time each night and wake up at the same time each day.
- Turn off all electronics ideally an hour before you try to go to sleep, because the blue light disrupts melatonin production, the counterbalance to cortisol which also helps us detox our brains and hormones while we sleep.
- Skip the alcohol in the evening – even a glass of good red wine has been shown to cause sleep disruptions, especially in women. Sleep is better, I promise.
5. Indulge now and then
I know this might surprise you, but remember, restriction increases your likelihood of binging. It’s just a fact. So indulging now and then is a long-run success strategy. I have only three rules: Only indulge in things that are real; don’t beat yourself up after – enjoy it with no guilt, shame, or blame; and don’t eat anything that makes you feel sick. Consider 2-3 squares of chocolate in the afternoon fair game!
6. Worry less about being fat. And love your body more. Seriously.
I know this may be really hard to do, but studies show that the more we worry about being fat, the more likely we are to get fat. And the more we give ourselves a break from the worry and show ourselves some love, the more likely we are to lose weight. So while this may sound like ho hum, new age-y advice, the reality is that enjoying your food with a healthy dose of self-love is an important ingredient in getting the body, weight, health and with it the life – that you really want.